Torn Asunder: Recovering from Extramarital Affairs Contributor(s): Carder, Dave (Author), Jaenicke, Duncan (Author), Jaenicke, Duncan (Joint Author), Seamands, David A (Joint Author) Infidelity is at crisis level even within the church. No marriage is immune despite apparent moral convictions. Dave Carder wrote Torn Asunder to offer couples hope, healing, and encouragement in the face of adultery. He divides his book into first helping readers understand extramarital affairs and then offering healing for marriages dealing with this betrayal. Excellent resource for pastors, leaders, and lay people.