Rekindling Desire: A Step-By-Step Program to Help Low-Sex and No-Sex Marriages Contributor(s): McCarthy, Barry W (Author), McCarthy, Emily (Joint Author), Schroeder, Paul A (Author) With sensitivity and tact, the McCarthys offer a ten-step program that features concrete techniques and effective strategies designed to help couples increase sexual awareness, confront inhibitions, revitalize desire, and integrate intimacy and eroticism.